10/31, night || un: n.sakasaki

[crystallomancy]

Help! A Friend Of Mine Recently Got Into Their Very First Relationship And They're Too Scared To Ask The Forums For Advice Themselves, So They're Making Me Do It! (´・ω・｀)

So, The Story Is... They Fell In Love At First Sight With Their Current Boo And Rushed Right Into A Relationship! Σ(´・ω・｀) Now They're At A Loss About What To Do With Them!

If Anyone Can Give Them Some Relationship And Love Advice... Don't Hesitate! They'll Appreciate All Kinds Of Answers!

Comments

[adsum]

"at a loss for what to do"
there's no commitment here
if it's not going to work out anyways just save yourself the grief

[crystallomancy]

And What Are Your Thoughts On Love Unrequited?

[adsum]

that's kind of pathetic, being in a relationship where the other person doesn't love you back
stop kidding yourself and just dump them

[crystallomancy]

( god )

You Don't Think There's A Chance They Could Eventually Love You Back?

[adsum]

there's *always* a chance, but you need to be realistic at some point too
if you're really really really serious about it, then do what you can to increase those chances
learn about what they love and do for them what they love and share things you love too
spend time with them and listen to them
make your intentions clear but be a friend first of all, above everything else
these are all no brainers, natsume, come on

[crystallomancy]

( natsume mentally checking off a few things )

Naturally, But I Wanted To Know What You Thought.
It Might Help Our Luckless Fools In School.

[adsum]

next time don't ask people who don't know anything!
just ask me!

[crystallomancy]

( KGJDH )

I'm Glad You've Warmed Up To Me So Much, Kudo-chan.

[adsum]

what do you mean?
everybody else's opinions are just wrong
and if you continue on like that it'll be too sad to see

[crystallomancy]

( this reminds me of something i have to make for chiaki. )

Have You Ever Been In Love?

[adsum]

I've had crushes, but I'm too busy to be in love
that doesn't make my advice any less legit, though!
I told you, it's common sense!

[crystallomancy]

Now Now.
No One's Too Busy To Fall In Love.

[adsum]

falling in love and being in love are different things

[crystallomancy]

( UUGHHHH )

Also My Friend Says They Won't Break Up With Their Boo Because They're In It To Win It.

r.amami

[sisters]

?

[sisters]

"win" what?

[crystallomancy]

It's A Turn Of Phrase, Amami-kun.

[sisters]

i know that, but your friend could stand to take things a bit more seriously, sakasaki-kun

[crystallomancy]

Regrettably, He Is. I'm Sure He Didn't Think His Choice Of Words Would Incite Your Unbridled Rage Though. Perhaps You Should Take A Walk Outside And Enjoy The Night Breeze.

[sisters]

"unbridled rage" might be taking it a bit far
but it's not like this is a game, yknow
i just think it'd be better if he put some more thought into these things

[crystallomancy]

You Know The Person In Question. He's Not A Frivolous Person, Despite How Easy-Going He Is.
But He Has Taken The Warning About The Phrasing He Uses To Heart, Despite The Fact Only Pedantics Would Take It Too Seriously.

[sisters]

it's not like i didn't realize that
but i think it's fair to be a bit concerned when *you* say he's rushed into the relationship without thinking about what comes next

They'll Appreciate All Kinds Of Answers!

my answer is to take the time to think things through properly
there's no point in rushing through it, cause if you're serious, there'll be plenty of time to let things happen naturally

[crystallomancy]

( ...hmmm. two points to amami, he guesses. )

I Hope He Takes These Words To Heart From You, Since He'd Dismiss Me With An "Oh, I Know!" And Leave It At That.

( like what's the point in being "best friends" if he's just gonna get brushed offffffffff )

[sisters]

cmon, i'm sure he'd take it to heart more than that
he's got a lot of trust in you yknow?
but he might figure it's advice meant to keep *him* safe when he's looking for the opposite, is all

( or at least he'd better be looking for the opposite... )

[crystallomancy]

( ...because subaru wouldn't be wrong, that it's to keep him safe, but natsume makes a face amami can't see but his roommates can. )

I Don't Care What Happens To Baru-kun. His Choices Are His Own. If They Turn Out To Be Mistakes, That's On Him.