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ten reconnections ➱ un: h. inaba
Hi there, everybody.
Even though there's a tendency to post a lot on these devices, there are times when you need to go to someone for advice.
Lest you never find answers, of course.
Please understand that this is just a silly little post just asking a single question: how do you define friendship?
Even though there's a tendency to post a lot on these devices, there are times when you need to go to someone for advice.
Lest you never find answers, of course.
Please understand that this is just a silly little post just asking a single question: how do you define friendship?
un: m.shirogane
That's quite a question for just a silly little post.
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Needless to say, it's the question that I've chosen for today.
Even someone like me likes to talk about this sort of thing.
Ever hear about the psychology of putting people in a small space and seeing how they react?
Does it sound familiar at all?
How about how people still need attachments? Well.
Escapism is also a thing, too. You can see it here. Anyway.
Let's not ramble too much.
Please tell me what you think. Although if you don't want to talk about this, we can switch subjects, too.
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For the sake of conversation, though.
A friend is someone a few steps above acquaintance and maybe one above 'confidant'. Someone you feel comfortable around, that you can rely on when the going gets tough. That being said, that's a two way street. You can't necessarily call someone a friend if they don't feel comfortable around you, and even caring for someone unconditionally has limits. If they're not willing to tell you to cut some shit out, then that makes them more of a toady than a friend.
That said, when a bunch of people are left in a small space, there's a chance they can pair off and become friends of convenience. A two heads are better than one tactic, just to survive because they recognize the other's merits. It's a pretty broad question.
[ ...anyway. ]
Classwork's light at the beginning of the year, isn't it? It still feels weird having free time after school.
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Obviously it's unnatural in a place like this.
So that's the reason why I've made a post like this.
Somehow, it's weird, though.
Only this time of the year would you get less classwork.
So there's not much student council work either?
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Plus, I still have to look out for the younger students who may be looking for guidance.
[ That's what the counselor is for, but also, no. ]
Back to the definition for a second.
In addition to the convenience aspect, there's also friendship through adversity. The shared experience can draw people even closer together, though that may fall more under 'confidant'.
I don't think I need to tell you about that, though.
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Of all things, though... I wonder if that's what the school wants.
Seriously, it's kind of a pain in the ass, though, this place.
Somehow it is how it is.
Once you form a human connection, you can't go back. And in a place like this
Safety in numbers is important... although I'm honestly a hypocrite about that.
Sad, isn't it?
Of course it is.
Similarly enough, though... there is a stark difference between true friendship and acquaintances.
So I think, anyway. It's
Only obvious.
Somehow. But I understand that. Friendship through adversity, that is.
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...hey-- ]
Why would I be interested in anything like that?
Honestly, I just want to ensure that the rest of the students here are safe after all.
Everyone deserves at least that, don't you agree?
Really, that's the kind of thing I signed up for in the first place.
Everybody's safety.
All of that said, I kind of get it. It's kinda dangerous to get closer to anyone at any point without leaving yourself open.
Rejection, heartbreak, betrayal, it's not easy to deal with.
Everyone knows that.
You think so?
Obviously, one could see the differences, but it's also pretty blurry when you think about it.
Ultimately, I don't think it's easy to define friendship in a universal matter. It means a lot of things.
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Of course the safety of others is important, though. Prevention is, too.
Me, though? I'm not so optimistic.
Everyone knows that by now, though.
Really.
Only an idiot would think otherwise.
Openhearted people have it a bit luckier, though...
Maybe if I was like that, friendship would be easier.
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Everything seems bleak right now, but that's the point of a new school year: a new beginning.
Then again,
How we carry ourselves going forward now that we have a general idea of how the school operates will be important.
Even though there are some mysteries that we still have to figure out... well.
Ready or not, we're stuck in this together for the long run.
Everyone has to deal with this somehow.
Simply put, I don't want to see anyone get hurt.
Or killed, for that matter.
Oh, that's kinda getting off-topic, isn't it?
Never mind.
[ yup. ]
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That's true.
However, we'll figure it out.
Although it might be difficult...
Nothing needs to be left unsolved.
Knowledge is power or something like that.
Still, don't worry too much. I'm sure all the answers will come in time.
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Inaba? Are you in here?
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[She's actually kind of sitting in a corner of the room and while her voice is loud as she calls out, it's also sounding a bit hoarse and sounding rather exhausted.]
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What's up? I'm here to help.
[ Not knowing what it is she needs help with, although he can probably guess. ]
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[...]
And it's not like I can go to the nurse's office anymore without feeling uncomfortable, either.
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[ He wouldn't be surprised at this point... ]
If that's the case, I can always help you to the dorms' common room. [ A beat. ] If you want, that is. I imagine all you need is some time to sleep.
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[...]
It's no good, either. If I wanted to sleep in the dorms, I would have gotten a dorm room by now. Sorry, I'm being... troublesome.
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...oh, right. ]
What about the student council room? I could lend you the key for a moment.
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You're okay with that?
[There's a strange sense of hope in her voice.]
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[ Maybe? If he explains the reason why, it should be okay. ]
Just as long as you return it when you're done. [ A beat. ] And of course, you don't leak any of our plans.
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[Give her a moment, she's trying very hard to actually compute this as a whole before she squeaks out in surprise.]
Excuse me? What do you mean by that?! Are you saying you trust someone like me not to spill student council secrets? I mean, a bunch of people probably already looked at a lot of the stuff because of the student council murders but still...! Isn't that crazy?!
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Sorry. Shirogane might be laughing just a little bit. ]
It was a joke, Inaba.
[ Linger on that for a second... ]
But, to answer your question, of course I do.
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[Her tired, addled mind doesn't process things as quickly, and while she's relieved that being with another person doesn't make it worse, it doesn't necessarily make it better. And when Inaba's exhausted, she automatically defaults to being defensive.]
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I suppose that's true enough, isn't it?
But strength, huh...
That's definitely a hard one to pull off for the common person, I'd like to say.
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In comparison, someone who enjoys battle as much as I do seems like a much less demanding stipulation.